Showing posts with label india. Show all posts
Showing posts with label india. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

India Saved

As you probably remember, my time in India wasn't all that lovely. Or fun. But on my last day there, on my way from Amritsar to Delhi, I met the most lovely family on the train and they honestly saved me from hating India. They were so generous, kind, caring, inquisitive, and sincerely interested in me--not my wallet.

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We had a wonderful time sitting around, sharing songs and laughing together. They sang me several of their traditional songs from their home village in Kerala and I sang them a traditional song from my home country too--Lean on Me. :) They told me stories and jokes and I shared with them my photos from some of my travels and throughout India. I will never forget them. Honestly, if it hadn't been for this one beautiful family who showed me the kindness of the Indian heart, I probably wouldn't return. But I want to and I will.

Here are a few videos to help experience the moment:





Monday, October 6, 2008

Missed me... AGAIN?!

I'm beginning to think that I am incredibly lucky. Just hours before a 6.8 earthquake struck Kyrgyzstan this morning, Jeremy and I had borded a last minute flight to Turkey. So, for those of you who may have heard about it on CNN, we're safe and currently in Istanbul. But hungry. And I'm a little sick. Bleh.

But back to being lucky... I leave Delhi; there's bombings. I leave Pakistan; there's a MASSIVE bombing. Now, I leave K-stan and there's an earthquake. I told J that's he's lucky to travel with me, I'll get him out in time! :) Read about the quake here.

Anyway, I'm sure that all your prayers help. Thanks a lot. More photos and cool stories to come. Keep commenting!!

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Amritsar

Here are some photos from Amritsar:

The emcee/cheer leader who led the hundreds of Indian spectators in songs, cheers and chants at the border closing ceremony.

Retiring the flag.


An old man at the Golden Temple.


Another old man...


A really cute young Sikh boy dressed as a maharaja and packing a golden sword. Too cute for words.


A father and his two daughters enjoying the sunrise at the Golden Temple.


Two young and beautiful sisters.


The Golden Temple at night. Pretty gold, eh?

Pakistan

And here are some photos from Pakistan:

Yay! I'm in Pakistan! At the border.

Very cool Pakistani semi-trucks. Made me think of Mexico. lol.

My first glance at Pakistan: a really dusty border town called Wagah.

Goofy pigeons living in the wall at Lahore Fort.

A very beautiful yet unsuspecting Pakistani woman at the top of the elephant stairway in Lahore Fort.
The king's mosque at Lahore Fort.


The giant mosque across from the fort.


My "guide" Sawamni.


A super smiley little Pakistani kid. Those aren't tears--it's sweat!


Some beautiful Pakistani women cooling off in the shade outside the mosque.


Some very curious men at the fort who really wanted me to take their photo.

Sunday, September 14, 2008

I'm fine, thanks.

So, some of you may have heard that there were bombings in Delhi yesterday and I thought I would let you all know that I'm fine. I was at the train station being helped by some nice guy. (Indian train stations are pits of chaos.) Yes, some of the bombs occurred in tourist areas but no worries, I didn't frequent those places anyway. :)

But this is a good reminder that terrorism happens everywhere. India is a pretty safe country to travel in but no country is entirely safe--even our own. I'm not unaccustomed to terrorism as I was in Madrid during the train bombings on March 11, 2004. But, after being there and seeing it happen, you realize that you can't live life in fear of what "could happen." So I don't. Instead, I travel the world and enjoy every moment of it.

Please continue to pray for my safety but keep in mind I'm at a far greater risk of food poisoning or being pick-pocketed than being a victim of terrorism.

And just to keep you all on your toes, I'm off to Pakistan tomorrow for two days. :) lol. Not to make you worry or anything...

Friday, September 12, 2008

The real wild, wild west...

Visa--check!
Flight--check!
Hotel--check!

I'm going to Bishkek! Where is that?... In the Kyrgyz Republic (formerly Kyrgyzstan)--a country smooshed between Kazakhstan, Tajikistan, China, and Uzbekistan. And really, it's wild out there!

The facts:
Populations: 5,264,000 (estimate because a lot of people are still nomadic herders and such)
Languages: Kyrgyz (Turkish roots) and Russian (Soviet roots)
Independence: 31 August 1991
Land: From the Tian Shan Mountains with a peak at 24,400 feet and the sub-tropical valley called Fergana.
Weather: Ranging from 104 F to sub zero with even constant snow fall in some desert areas during winter.
Traditions: Bride kidnapping.
Games: Buskashi or Ulak Tartysh. (A team game resembling a cross between polo and rugby in which two teams of riders wrestle for possession of the headless carcass of a goat, which they attempt to deliver across the opposition's goal line, or into the opposition's goal: a big tub or a circle marked on the ground.)
Transport: Train, plane, bus, mini-bus, and horse.

Should be fun! But I think the real adventure starts on Thursday when I fly out on Uzbekistan Airways. Read some entertaining reviews here: http://www.airlinequality.com/Forum/uzbekistan.htm. (Just for starters: my airline ticket is handwritten and I picked it up at the airline office in Delhi.)

Read more about K-stan here. (All of the above information was obtained from Wikipedia.)
See the countryside here. (Photos taken from real people and posted on Flickr.)

Tomorrow night, I'm off to Amristar to visit the famed Sikh Golden Temple. Should be interesting. It's the most holy place for people of the Sikh faith. Then I'm off to Pakistan for a two day jaunt in a country once considered part of India but now an independent Islamic Republic. Exciting stories to follow. Stay tuned!

Thursday, September 11, 2008

Going Places

So, good news! I'm getting out of Delhi! I've been in contact with Jeremy and we both are miserable without the other so I'm flying out to Bishkek, Kyrgyzstan on Friday next week to meet him. Oh my gosh, I can't wait! This is what I was really missing--not just people in general, but that one special person. I finally feel like I can be happy again. :)

Anyway, more updates later. Right now I need to catch a taxi to the Kyrgyz embassy. Will give more details later. Hope you all are well! Love!!

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

Agra Day 3

Still feeling like a caged rabbit.

I sat and chatted with a guy from Poland last night and we both shared a lot of the same sentiments regarding India. He's been here a week as well but his best friend left him a couple nights ago--out of the blue!--to go meet up with his girlfriend. And so here we were, a couple of lonely travelers. But he had friends coming to meet him and they planned to go to Nepal together. I still have no one. It was nice having someone to talk to though.

We had some interesting conversation about the conflict in Georgia, the war in Iraq, the US missile defense system in Poland, and how depressing India is. Everywhere you go, people are begging for money. There are cows all over in the street eating plastic and gum wrappers from the ground. Kids are flinging dung at each other. Men are making kissing noises at you and rickshaw drivers follow you for blocks trying to convince you to ride with them. Every corner smells like urine. Dogs fight in dark alleys and follow you if you're carrying food. You have sweat beading off your face, rolling down shirt and dripping from your hair. Incredible India?

India is unlike any place on earth. I wouldn't call myself a seasoned Asia traveler, but I've seen enough to know that India stands apart on it's own. It's worse than China. Worse than Vietnam. Significantly worse than Thailand. The country is disorganized. The government corrupt. The people happy living in filth.

While in Delhi, I walked around Cognaut Place--the city center and former home of the British Raj. The beautiful colonial buildings are all crumbling. They are stained with years of graffiti and yellowed by daily dousings of piss. Men hide in dark corners and pollution fills the air like a black fog. Being there, you can't help but be sad. When the Brits left, they left so much behind for India, but you can see--everywhere you go--how unwilling, unmotivated and uncaring Indian's are about the up-keep of their country.

At historical sites, rebellious teenagers climb fences and deface historical buildings. People swing from columns and picnic in closed areas. Mosques, tombs, temples, and forts are abandoned within the ever sprawling urban jungle, left to face a very certain demise of encroaching business and homes.

No one cares.

I knew it would be dirty, crowded and poor, but I never thought it would be void of passion and pride. It's hard to imagine that in the most populated country in the world--over 1 billion people--that one could still feel so alone.

In the last few days, I've started to think that maybe Korea wasn't as bad as I thought it was... I really wasn't ready to start over again. But now I'm here and I don't know where to go next. I can't go back to Korea (I sent all my documents to Australia). Flights back to Seattle are really expensive. I could go to Australia but I'd be alone there too (the difference is in the standard of living). I feel like I'm trapped in India. I'm pretty sure that if I leave early, I'll never come back. That worries me a bit. I don't want to waste this experience. But right now I really need a friend. I kinda feel like that's more important. Anyway, I found a flight to Sydney on Friday for $600. I haven't bought it yet but it's looking pretty nice at the moment... If any of you know someone there that I might be able to hangout with for a bit until I get a job or a place to live (whichever comes first) please let me know. I'm not sure I'll go then but it's a thought... Let me know if you've got any ideas.

Monday, September 8, 2008

Agra Day 2

In response to Judy's comment, no, I won't be hanging out with the Boston guy anymore. He left last night for Varanasi and is then on his way to Nepal. I, on the other hand, have the rest of today and most of tomorrow to fill here in Agra. It's painfully obvious at this point that I allotted far too much time for this city. There is only one more sight that I wish to see but getting there is difficult and I've seen my cash disappear rather quickly (Delhi was expensive). I'm also hesitant to spend money because my pension check hasn't been deposited yet into my Korean bank account--that's a good $2,000 or so.



Above are some cool photos from the Taj Mahal that I took earlier this morning. I wanted to post some others too but it's taking AGES to upload photos to Flickr. Oh, I miss South Korean internet...

There are a lot of cool things to see here but I'm seriously considering leaving. I didn't think it would be so hard to do this all by myself. I feel so incredibly alone here. I don't want to go but I don't want to stay. What I really want is a travel buddy but I can't seem to find one. No, what I really need is a hug. A big one. With lots of tissue. Or a super big distraction like a 12 page research paper or a newspaper deadline--even a job would do. I really want to be that person who goes off for three or 4 or 5 months to travel by herself but I'm not so sure anymore that I can be that person. I need people.

I'm probably just being irrational and all fo this will go away soon but I'm not exactly having fun in the meantime. I'm not too comfortable with soo much "me" time... Anyone want to come to India?

Sunday, September 7, 2008

A Teaser...

I didn't realize how fast Korea's internet was until two days ago when I tried to download something here. Ugh. It's going to take me an entire day to download then upload photos. I may just do one photo for each site I visit on the blog and the rest of you can just find them on Flickr...

Anyway, here's a few photos to peak your interest. :)

Btw, today was MUCH better. I made friends with a cool guy from Boston and we hung out pretty much all day. We were both desperate for someone to talk to! lol.


Agra Fort: one of the harem gardens.


The most adorable kids.


The baby Taj Mahal in Agra (said to be the inspiration of the Taj proper).


View from the baby Taj over the river.

Delhi

Let's recap the last two days...

Day 1
-Visited the Red Fort. It wasn't nearly as crowded as I expected but there was little shade and I was sooo hot. I was shocked to see that a lot of Indians have no respect for historical sites. They'll still pee on the walls. They'll still climb fences. They'll still picnic in closed off areas. It was a little sad. Because people don't respect government boundaries, these places are crumbling.
-Visited the Jain Temple and Bird Hospital (yes, it's a hospital for birds). Jainism is a sect of Hinduism that adheres to strict vegetarian and non-violence laws. For example, nothing made of leather is allowed in the temple and many people in their old age decide to stop eating completely as to keep themselves from killing plants. While there, I fell down some marble stairs that were wet and bruised my arm pretty badly as well as the arch of my left foot and my butt. I have a very dark, very tender line across my back and butt where I fell on the stairs. Ouch. It was difficult sleeping last night.
-Visited the Jama Masid Mosque. Pretty spectacular. The courtyard can hold over 25,000 worshipers and it's the largest in India. I saw lots of people drinking and bathing in a large water tank front and center but the water was so dirty and green from algae and mold. I wouldn't touch it. Upon entering, I had to put on a Muslim dress which was interesting and I also had to take off my shoes--torture! The red sandstone of the courtyard was searingly hot! But it was worth it. :)

Day 2
-Bought tickets to Agra (the Taj Mahal) and to Lucknow (some other cool stuff). I will be leaving really early tomorrow for the Taj. Should be fun.
-Went to lunch were I found myself being followed by two men secretly working together. It was pretty scary. They both followed me for several blocks even after I told them to go away (in both Hindi and English). I eventually ducked into a cafe where one of the men pretended to walk on as if I didn't notice him but then returned to the cafe after I had ordered and proceeded to sit next to me, whispering on his cell phone. I tried not to look at him or let him know I was even aware of his existence. But then he started asking me questions so I silently shook my head as if I didn't understand and shortly after he stood up and left, talking to someone just out of site of the cafe window... But it wasn't over. I stayed there for a while because I felt like I was being watched and yep, I was. Maybe 5 minutes later the other man who followed me and tried talking to me curiously walks in, notes me, looks around the cafe as if I wasn't the agenda and then walks out. I was pretty creeped out at this point so I stayed there and watched the window for a while. I saw the two men walk by (seperately) at least a dozen times each over the next two hours, always looking at my table and abruptly looking away. It was just too coincidental. When I hadn't seen them for a half hour or so, I quickly left and got in a tuk-tuk. Weirdness. Good thing I'm rather observant and discerning when it comes to talking with strange men!
-Visited the National Museum which was huge! I spent at least 4 hours there and still skipped exhibits! The best though was on Indian miniature paintings which were both colorful and exotic in the most wonderful ways.
-After the National Museum, I walked down the mall with a pistacio ice cream cone to India gate (a big gate commemorating those who died during WWI). It was hot but beautiful.
-Walked to the National Gallery of Modern Art but was pointed in the wrong direction by a taxi driver whom I wouldn't take a ride from. I was furious when I discovered it. Good thing I didn't go too far. The museum was pretty interesting and I tried hard to talk to the other foreigners there but was met with awkwardness and a reluctancy to talk. Pretty much sucked.
-Went to the Ba'h'ai Lotus Temple. Ba'h'ai (correct spelling?) is a universal, monotheistic religion that believes all religions have common elements reflective of the one Creator. They welcome people of all faiths to their temples for prayer, worship and meditation. I tried to pray there but found it just wasn't right. So I chalked it up to a tourist site and left (but first visited their information center). From my observation, Ba'h'ai philosophy seems to be a little discorded in that unity was God's "new idea" or "new purpose" around 1800, yet he's the same God of every religion of all time... Hmmm. Wouldn't unity be his idea from the beginning? Ba'h'ai seems to teach truisms based on the teachings and writings of 4 sages, however, I don't see how it constitutes a religion. More of a philosophy of tolerance if you ask me...

What's with the photos?
Well, I'm having difficulty finding the optimum format for photos with my camera and thus far Flickr has determine TIFF images too big and RAW images incompatible. I should be able to post and upload some tomorrow when I revert to JPEGs. Sorry about the wait. Someday I get it all together...

How am I?
I am sad and lonely. I didn't think it would be so hard to meet people. I've only managed to talk to two--TWO!--and neither were interested in talking for more than 5 minutes. Everyone here is in pairs and I feel like the only solo traveler in all of India (though I know it's not true). And I miss Jeremy. I miss him so much. And I'm sad because I miss him so much. It's really tempting right now to just pack up and leave. Go somewhere else. Back to Korea. Straight to Australia. I've even considered home (though I wouldn't do it). I hate being alone. I'm not a solo person. I don't know how I'm going to do this on my own... But I've told myself that I must stick it out for at least 5 weeks. If I'm still miserable after that, I can leave. That's my deal. Let's see how it goes... Pray that I meet someone tomorrow to hangout with for at least a couple hours. I'll be taking the train to Agra and that should be a good place to meet someone. I don't know if I can go through another day alone. I might become a hotel hermit.

So, I continue on! Photos soon, I promise!

Friday, September 5, 2008

India Day 1

Okay, so first off, my apologies for neglecting this blog for soo long. I've just been too busy to blog much and near the end my priorities shifted from spending time on the internet to spending time with Jeremy and my friends.

These last few weeks have been the best few weeks I've ever had in Korea and I'm really going to miss people. Saying goodbye to Jeremy at the airport was nearly devastating. I don't know what to say. I'm not sure what happens now. I cried for hours on the plane and all night. It's only been one day but after spending two weeks together, one day seems like eternity. And I know it may be 8 or 9 months before we see each other again. What happens then is a mystery. All I can say is that I seriously love this guy. He is the most kind, gentle, tender, understanding, patient, and caring man I've ever known. He's not just my boyfriend. He's my best friend. It's going to be hard for the next few weeks to not spend my time counting down days and rather enjoy my trip...

As for India, my first acquaintance was a stinky one. I'm pretty sure India is the armpit of the world. Yes, that's right. Holy pit stains, it reeks of sweat here! The flight to India from Malaysia was intoxicating. And the man next to me drank a lot of whiskey. But I'm here. I checked into my hotel last night (bare but live able, though the toilet is something else) and I got up this morning and came straight to the internet cafe. I had to get up all those posts before I got too far behind. So, here I am. Not much else to say. It's 9:30 AM and I still need to call my mom. After that, I'm moving to a new hotel room, getting some food and much needed water, and then hopefully starting to see the city. Stay tuned! Photos and stories on the way!

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

I can taste the naan now!

Two important news bites:

1. I received my India visa today!
2. I purchased my ticket to Delhi today!

Oh my gosh! This means I'm ACTUALLY going!! Holy cow! There will certainly be some mad Lonely Planet reading tonight!! Woo hoo!!